Infidelity Therapy

Affair Recovery in Denver and Boulder

Healing is Possible. Rebuilding Trust Starts Here.

When Betrayal Breaks the Ground Beneath You

Whether you’re the partner who was betrayed or the one who had the affair, discovering infidelity in your relationship can feel like the air’s been knocked out of you.
The world you thought you were building together suddenly feels unstable—full of questions, heartbreak, rage, and confusion.

Maybe you’ve asked:

  • “How could this happen to us?”

  • “Will I ever be able to trust again?”

  • “Do we stay or go?”

  • “Can we ever feel close again?”

Affair recovery is one of the hardest things a couple can face—and also one of the most transformative.

You’re Not Alone in This

It’s normal to feel completely destabilized after an affair. Infidelity shakes not just your relationship, but your sense of identity, security, and the story you thought you were living.
Maybe you’re feeling waves of grief, anger, or guilt. Maybe you’re trying to talk about it, but the conversations keep going in painful circles.
Maybe you haven’t told anyone yet—and are holding it all in, unsure of where to turn.

Therapy for infidelity is a space where you can begin to sort through the chaos, slow things down, and understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.
We’ll help you rebuild emotional safety before making any big decisions.

What If This Could Be a Turning Point?

Affair recovery is not about pretending it didn’t happen or moving on too quickly. It’s about slowing down, getting honest, and rebuilding something with integrity.
Some couples find their way back to each other with a bond that’s deeper, more honest, and more connected than before. Others find clarity that it's time to lovingly let go.

Wherever this process takes you, therapy after betrayal can help you:

  • Understand the deeper dynamics that led to the affair

  • Process the pain, anger, or shame you’re carrying

  • Rebuild emotional and physical trust at a sustainable pace

  • Learn new patterns of communication and repair

  • Decide what you want for your future—with clarity, not reactivity

The affair may be the crisis—but the work is about so much more than just the event. It’s about the relationship underneath it all.

Our Approach to Affair Recovery

At Firefly Therapy Group, we specialize in attachment-based, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) that honors both partners’ experiences while guiding you through the difficult terrain of infidelity.
This work is never about blame. It’s about helping both partners feel seen, understood, and empowered to move forward—whatever that looks like.

We provide:

  • Deep, nonjudgmental support for both partners

  • Structured, trauma-informed repair work

  • Tools to regulate emotional overwhelm and de-escalate conflict

  • Clarity about the roots of disconnection and what comes next

We know that couples in affair recovery often need more than just an hour a week. We also offer full-day Couples Intensives for Infidelity Recovery in Denver and Boulder—for those ready to make accelerated, meaningful progress when time and urgency matter.

This Is Hard. And It’s Also an Opportunity.

Affair recovery isn’t linear—and it’s not quick. But with the right support, it can be the start of a different kind of relationship. One built on truth, emotional presence, and a willingness to do the deep work of repair.

Whether you're unsure about staying together, or both committed to rebuilding, you don’t have to do this alone.

Start Infidelity Therapy in Denver or Boulder

If you’re navigating the aftermath of an affair, we’re here to walk with you through the heartbreak, the healing, and the hard conversations.

Let’s take the next step toward clarity, courage, and connection.

Accelerate Your healing Process

If you’re in crisis and don’t have time to wait for the weekly process to unfold, our Couples Intensive for Affair Recovery may be the right place to begin.
In a full-day, focused format, we’ll help you unpack the betrayal, understand what happened beneath the surface, and begin the real work of healing.
This is a space for couples who need answers, support, and direction—now.

Why you may come in for Affair Recovery Therapy.

  • Physical infidelity

  • Emotional infidelity

  • Trust issues

What you may gain from Affair Recovery Therapy.

  • Reinstated intimacy

  • Reinstated trust

  • Stronger communication and levels of connection